14 Actors Who Had To Remind Fans They're Not The Characters They Play

14 Actors Who Had To Remind Fans They're Not The Characters They Play

Molly Weinfurter
June 26, 2024 14 items
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Vote up the most awkward moments when fans forgot an actor wasn't their character.

In many cases, when people see actors in public, they see them as the character they play before remembering that the character is fictional. However, not everyone is quick to realize that an actor is separate from the character. Actors all over the world have suffered from being treated like they're their character in public. Sometimes it's amusing, but other times, it becomes annoying.

For example, some people are rude to actors because they play villains, such as Jeffrey Dean Morgan as Negan from The Walking Dead. Other times, they're upset at how the actors don't act like their characters in real life, such as how Luke Newton and Nicola Coughlan aren't in love like their characters in Bridgerton.

As easy as it is to get immersed in your favorite movies and TV shows, it's clear that actors aren't their characters. And if you feel like the actor should behave like the character, that just means they did an excellent job portraying them. While most people know actors are people and not characters, there are always a few people that forget and make situations awkward. 


  • Antony Starr 'Thanks' Fans For Being Surprised He's Nothing Like The Murderous Homelander From 'The Boys'

    The Role: Starr has had a breakout star-turn on The Boys as Homelander, a superhero who carefully manages a public persona as a noble man of the people to mask a deeply sadistic streak.

    The Mixup: With the growing popularity of The Boys over the last few years, Starr has become increasingly recognizable for his portrayal of a psychopathic terror, so he's taken extra steps to shave his head or grow a beard to make himself look less like Homelander when the show's not in production. Still, fans continually act shocked when he's nothing like the icy character. Starr told Rolling Stone:

    People are surprised, like, ‘Oh, my God, you’re actually not like him.’ And I’m like, 'Yeah, he’s a psychopathic narcissist. So yeah, thanks. Thank you for that.'

    I actually don’t have superpowers. I have a very sensitive rump.

    115 votes
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  • The Role: Tony Goldwyn was the main antagonist of the movie Ghost, Carl Bruner. He was once a good friend of the protagonist, Sam Wheat, but he turns on him and plans to rob him. As a result of Carl's actions, Sam ends up dying.

    The Mixup: In an interview on The View, Tony Goldwyn shared a bizarre experience he had after starring in Ghost. He said he went to a restaurant where the waitress refused to seat him. She acted rude and told him he could sit where he wanted, but then she wouldn't bring him a menu. After finally giving him his food, she stared at him for a while before figuring out where she knew him from. Goldwyn recalled:

    Then she's staring at me,…and she says, 'I'm sorry, are you an actor?' And I said, ‘yeah.’ 'You're in that movie Ghost!' and she says, 'Oh my god, I'm so sorry, I knew I hated you but I couldn't remember why.'

    153 votes
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  • Giancarlo Esposito Scared A Woman On An Airplane Because Of His 'Breaking Bad' Character

    The Role: Giancarlo Esposito plays Gustavo “Gus” Fring in Breaking Bad and Better Call Saul. He's the main antagonist and a major narcotics distributor. Most fans of the show find his character terrifying because he becomes very focused on revenge, and you never know what his next move will be.

    The Mixup: Even though Giancarlo Esposito is known for playing menacing characters, he seems to have a sweet, friendly disposition in real life. Yet, many people get scared when they see him because of his character. In an interview, he mentioned an instance where a woman was scared of him while waiting in line for the airplane bathroom. When she saw him, she froze and stammered, telling him he could go in front of her. Esposito kindly told her it was okay, but she remained terrified. Esposito recalled:

    She would not move off the wall. She is pinned to the wall. So I go to the bathroom. I come back out, I say, 'Hey, my name is Giancarlo. I'm not Gus.' She says, ‘I-I know but you just scared me so badly.’

    101 votes
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  • The Role: Since Back to the Future was such a big hit, Thomas F. Wilson is well-known for playing Biff, the bully who tormented George McFly. He continues to bully George even as an adult until George's son Marty goes back in time and affects the timeline.

    The Mixup: People are quick to assume that Thomas F. Wilson is a bully just like Biff, but that's not the case at all. Usually, when he talks about his role on Back to the Future, he tries to be comedic about it, such as when he sang “Biff's Question Song” and talked about how often people ask him about Michael J. Fox. However, he eventually admitted that people would bully him to prove they were tougher than Biff, even though Biff isn't real. Wilson said:

    …Guys would want to put me in a headlock, or push me around a bit, or get into a little tussle with ‘that tough guy from Back To The Future, because he’s not that tough after all.’ Well, I’m not that tough after all, because I’m an actor; because it’s pretend!

    123 votes
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  • Jeffrey Dean Morgan Got Flipped Off By An Elderly Woman Who Was Clearly Unhappy With His 'Walking Dead' Villain

    The Role: Jeffrey Dean Morgan played Negan on The Walking Dead, a famous antagonist on the show. Negan killed lots of characters throughout the series, including eight significant ones. So, many people despised him for killing their favorite character.

    The Mixup: Unfortunately, some of the fans who hate Negan also hate Jeffrey Dean Morgan as a result. In a Conan interview, Morgan explained that he regularly hangs out with Norman Reedus, who plays Daryl. He shared that people always go up to Reedus to tell him how much they love Daryl, but they're often rude to Morgan for being Negan. He recalled one specific event where an old woman flipped him off:

    This lady, my grandma's age, just double fisted flipped me off. After being like this with Daryl (blows kisses) like “I love you, I wanna marry you, most handsome man," she looks over at me and just gives me two fingers.

    126 votes
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    Milburn Stone Of 'Gunsmoke' Received Letters From Fans Asking Medical Questions

    Milburn Stone Of 'Gunsmoke' Received Letters From Fans Asking Medical Questions

    The Role: In the 1950s, Milburn Stone played Dr. Galen Adams (also known as “Doc”) on the Western show Gunsmoke. Since Doc provided medical assistance to the other characters, Stone liked to make sure all the medical information in the show was accurate, making the actor seem like a believable doctor.

    The Mixup: Milburn Stone's performance seemed to be a little too believable for some fans. In an interview, he once talked about how he frequently received fan mail from people asking him for medical advice. Those fans seemed to genuinely think that he was qualified to provide medical care just like his character. Stone recalled:

    Even after ten years, these letters shock me. These people honestly expect me, an actor, to cure their ailments by mail. I always write back, 'You'd better hurry up and see a doctor. I mean a real doctor.'

    48 votes
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